The Colloid Base

Sexy toys may be difficult to include into a long term relationship Some individuals will often discover the introduction of dongs into a partnership nerve raking and it might bring up questions such as “does he fancy me anymore”? Yet sex aids can be a fascinating and satisfying affair & vibrators also help to build trust between you & your husband.

Figuring out which vibe to choose might well be an adventure. A time where you and your mistress can sit down and communicate about what you both want out of the event & choose a dong together that meets both of your needs. Don?t go straight in for the big league huge sex play toys, start off easily.

Once you have chosen a marital aid & have had the delight of seeing your new treasure you and your partner need to get into the mood. Dimmed light and romantic music are the perfect platform to just start off any sexual adventure. Make the time seductive, unplug the cell phone, turn off the DVD player and focus fully on your wife. Extensive sensual stimulation before bringing out the vibrating toy is a marvellous idea. Romantic and sensual & loving strokes increases the sensations & helps towards a relaxing & satisfying sex session. Never spend an evening alone with Sex Dolls.

And please do not forget to get into the moment, have lots of fun & enjoy it.

They came back last week - lively little finches just beginning to show their annual caps of glorious cherry red feathers.

Their feeder stands only three feet from my office window, so they provide a relaxing break almost anytime during the day. They fuss and squabble, acting so churlish and unneighborly that I often wonder where they stuff their hostilities while they raise their young.

They’ve been a source of springtime pleasure for many years. This year they’re a source of some concern as well.

I can easily identify one of the males by the prominent cyst on the back of his head. Feathers that would normally cover his crown with bright color stick up in a weird brown little tuft. The lump with its unruly feathers has been on his head since his arrival. It shows no sign of disappearing.

My concern deepened yesterday when a female with a huge lump on the side of her face appeared on the feeder. At first, I thought it was only a sunflower seed, stuck there in the damp weather. I wondered why she did not brush it away.

This morning I could see the dark mass more clearly. No sunflower seed that she could knock off on a twig, this ugly tumor will mar her beauty from now on. If it continues to grow, it may cause her to starve.

I’m worried now. Of the two dozen or so finches who regularly visit my feeder, at least two sport abnormal growths. Almost 10%.

I ask myself what’s going on here. The most reasonable answer is that something in their environment has poisoned them. What the culprit might be I do not know. Nevertheless, I do know that if the environment is growing worse for birds, then it is also growing worse for humans.

We can no longer afford to lounge in our easy chairs, making fun of “environmentalist whackos.” We will become activists, protectionists, true conservationists, or we will not survive.

The finches, like the canary of legend, still live. Under most environmental conditions, we, as larger creatures, will probably outlive them. But for how long? And at what price?

Phyllis Staff is a psychologist and daughter of a victim of Alzheimer’s disease. She is passionate about the environment, about its health effects on humans, and about helping people avoid the suffering of Alzheimer’s and other dementias. Visit her website at http://www.alzheimersfree.com